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Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Swine Flu

This is what Swine Flu looks like (Rachel is hamming it up just a bit).



Its just the 2 of us that are sick, so far, but the baby looks like he might get it, too. The doctor said that Shaun and Nathan are fine to be out in public unless they start showing symptoms. Thank goodness, and knock on wood. My neighbor/visiting teacher/friend, Sarah, has been wonderful during this whole thing, checking in on us every once in a while, and bringing food. I love her. Steve has also been great to let me sleep, a lot. I can't wait to be over this.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Family update

My family does a newsletter every month that I'm going to start posting on the blog as well. Sorry to those who have to see it twice, but at least you're getting something, so quit complaining. OK?






The kids went back to school!!! Three out of
the four. Can I get a whoop-whoop? That first day
of school, after the dust settled, I realized I was
really going to like getting to know my baby. Guess
what. He still takes a morning nap, so I play with
him for a while until he gets cranky, I put him
down, and then I do what I want to do for 2 hours.
This is a new experience for me, so for the first few
days I just kinda stared off into space with a
confused look on my face. I figured it out since
then, and now don't know what I'll do if school is
ever cancelled due to snow, swine flu or anything
else ridiculous like that.

It has not all been peaches and cream,
though. We've had way too many Dr. appointments
already, and Rachel has called home sick twice in 2
weeks. I've had to drive back and forth from the
elementary school to the preschool, which is about
20 mins in between, multiple times, Nathan has
incessant diarrhea, the baby has pink eye, Rachel
has a staph infection on her belly, and I had the flu.
It’s like a tilt-a-whirl. You think its going to slow
down, but it just never really does until someone
hurls. And who gets to clean up the mess? The
Mama.
Moving on. Steve is busy this month, and
will be on call a lot this month. He is very tired (Jeff
do you remember?) and feels like he knows no one
outside of work. He does love to go to Costco and
tease me that if I let him work a little bit more,
moonlighting, we'd be able to buy that 54'' plasma.
Very funny, Steve.








I do have some really great news actually.
Shaun started some new medication, because he has
a really hard time keeping his hands to himself, and
keeping his emotions in check, and he is like a new
kid. He comes home from school wanting to tell me
about his day, instead of me having to pull it out of
him, and he's so happy. He is so helpful and kind to
his siblings, and loves to do his homework (he
actually always has though). We have always loved
Shaun so much, but I feel like this is the Shaun I
knew was inside trying to come out. Can I get a huzzah?




Rachel is in Kindergarten now, and is
exhausted and cranky, and I'm pretty sure that
kindergarten is the culprit for causing both. She
comes home and is so excited to tell me
EVERYTHING about her day, and then demands a
snack and the remote. Luckily, she is coming
around, and I think she'll be back to her normal,
happy self soon. She loves drawing flowers and
stars all the time now. She loves anything that is
artsy or crafty. We have a lot of fun working on a
fairy house out of sticks and rocks and anything else
she can find. Her hair is growing so long and she
now lets me actually blow dry it. She looks like a
movie star. She is so pretty.

Nathan is still our work in progress. He is
being seen and "helped" by way too many people,
that sometimes I wonder if it’s actually helping. He
learned to climb out of his crib recently, so we've
been really struggling with his bedtime lately. I
would put him down by telling him a story, singing
a song and then tucking him in, but he kept on
getting out so I finally added locking the door to the
routine. When I told his therapist, she looked at me
like I had just eaten my child. I'd like to see her deal
with him waking her up in the morning by
screaming in her face, chasing him around all day,
cleaning up after his misadventures (i.e. throwing
raw eggs on the kitchen floor. One of his favorites),
trying to figure out what he's screaming all the time,
watching Dora incessantly, protecting the baby
from his fingernails and teeth, and chasing him
around all day, and still have the patience to lay
down for an hour and a half with him every night
and nap. I bet she'd trade in her perfect hair and cute
shoes with heels for a hat and flip flops and do
anything for a little peace. Actually, I just had to
lock the door a few times for him to realize bedtime
was bedtime. He now goes right to sleep, but it took
about 3 weeks for me to not feel guilty about it.
Matthew is adorable and so sweet, still. He
is still small and we just found out that he's in the
10th percentile for weight and the 5th for height. I
don't know quite what to do with such a tiny little
thing. Actually, we just snuggle and love him and
feed him butter. I hope it works. He will be 1 soon,
which is unbelievable to me. I really did just have
him 2, maybe 3 months ago. I sure do love him. He
is the cutest accessory I have and goes with every
outfit, and he's always on my hip.





So, this month has been crazy and busy and
good. We're happy to be on the right track with so
many things










Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Nathan


I was flipping through the channels tonight, and now that we have cable, PBS has become a distant memory of poorer days, but I felt like I should stop and just check it out. So I stopped, and was surprised to see a program about a chromosomal mutation called fragile X that presents in children like Autism does. I felt like this was for me, and that I need to get Nathan tested. I actually was just asking his therapist yesterday if we should get genetic testing done, because I had read somewhere that it is beneficial, to which she looked at me like I was a overanxious, paranoid mother, and wondered what it would change. I think knowing is 99.9% of the battle. I think that if I had a definitive answer on why he is the way he is, then we would all look at it differently, and be able to help him better. Plus, it is genetic, so we could make sure that if, say, Matthew had it, we could get him help earlier (I'm not saying I think he does, but just an example).


Nathan was diagnosed a while ago with PDD (which is on the autism spectrum) and ADHD, so is very hyper and busy and difficult to manage, but is about the sweetest little boy you'll ever meet. I think that we are being led down this path, and I'm very hopeful to see whats around the bend. Any prayers that are sent our way will be greatly appreciated and gladly reciprocated.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

I'm sorry, I spoke too soon.

I'm just going to write this fast so its documented. A few days after I wrote the last post, Nathan started throwing up. He threw up for 6 days straight. I took him to the Dr twice, and the ER once, under direct order from the Dr. He lost like 6 lbs. It was horrible, and of course Steve was on call the first night when it was so bad. I don't like throw up, and neither did our shag rug who had to be retired to the dumpster.

Soon after he revived, it was the baby's turn. He had just a bad cold that turned into wheezing and cough that we had to treat with breathing treatments every 4 hours. We ended up in the ER one night after giving back to back albuterol treatments, but he came out of the scary wheezing zone, and we left before they came and got us (2 hours later).

The good news is... this was almost a month ago, and there has been no sickness to speak of since. Michigan has started to come out of it's deep freeze, and the kids have started to get a little pink back in their cheeks and a spring in their step. I am too. I finally feel like I'm not in survival mode anymore, and that I can actually make a batch of cookies or play on the floor with Nathan and not run into drama.

So I'm writing this to give myself something to look back on and say, 'I lived through that. I can live through just about anything.' I'm grateful its a memory.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

'Twas a dark and stormy month...







I remember a time when I could take time to write more than twice a year, but that was a different time. I also remember a time when my posts were about happier things like the lastest on The Bachelor, or my favorite trip to Ireland, or how much fun we had at a school function. Once again, different times.


I will start my sad, dark tale 4 weeks ago, right around Valentine's Day, when I noticed Shaun starting to cough. All bad stories in this house start that way. He coughed and sniffed for a couple of days, and I thought very little of it, but that he had a cold. Fast forward 1 week to our mid winter break (a stupid week long break where Michiganders fly south to forget their sorrows) to where Shaun is now coughing to the point of vomiting. He would throw up 2-3 times a day, so I took him to the dr. where I was told that it was a cold that was exasterbated by asthma, and I should give him his inhaler. I rolled my eyes, but did as I was told, knowing that there was something more to it. I also took the baby in at this time because he was coughing a bit, and I just figured it was the same thing that Shaun had. Wrong. After 3 breathing treatments, and a trip to the ER, they found out it was RSV. Awesome!

Does it end there, my friends? No it does not.

Nathan started school at the beginning of March, and I drive him every morning the 15 minutes to get him there by 8:45 so he can eat breakfast and play for an hour and then I take him home. They are working him into it, so he doesn't get overwhelmed, and it makes life a bit busier.

We like to be busy around here.

Shaun was still sick, so I called the dr. and she said to keep up the inhaler, and put him on an oral steroid as well.

Rachel started coughing at the end of the week, and by Monday, she too was coughing to the point of vomiting. I just knew that it was the same thing that Shaun had so I started the treatment for the 'asthma' symptoms and gave her Triamenic to calm down the 'cold' syptoms.

On the 11th, I fought the familiar fight with Shaun to tell him he had to go to school because he didn't act sick except for his cough, and that he threw up last night because of his cough. Its asthma, I told him, then he coughed and threw up at me. Ok, you can stay home, but we still had to take Nate to school. So we dragged all the sickness outside, and run to the car (we were already late), where we find the window shattered, and our GPS stolen. Sweet. But we were late for preschool, so we rush off with the frigid air blasting all 4 kids in the back. That probably made them feel better. I am the best mom. We then had to go through the huge ordeal of insurance and police nonesense. But thats over.

On to this past Monday. The kids were both still coughing and throwing up, so I make out another appointment just because I'm sick of them being home form school, and not because they were any worse than before. We got in there, and I was most worried about Shaun, so they start with him. Pulse-ox:95. Solid. Breathing:clear. He's looking good, but he was the one that threw up twice that morning. I was annoyed once again that his symptoms were not showing up at the right time. So on to Rachel. Pulse-ox:88. Very bad. Breathing: wheezing and crackling. I had just given her a breathing treatment before we left, so that couldn't be right. 4 hours, 3 breathing treatments and a chest x-ray later, we are told that we have 2 options. ER via ambulance, or via car.

Steve was on 30 hour call this day and seeing how I couldn't take Shaun with us, I had to drop him off to my dear friend, Tracey. Luckily Nathan was already being watched by another friend, Wendy, so we just drove as fast as we could and jumped out of the car and rushed into the waiting abyss we know as the UofM hospital.

Rachel was a bit excited by the thought of it finally being her chance to spend a night in the hospital, so that kept it happy until she found out that she needed an IV. Things went pretty bad the rest of that night, but once the antibiotics kicked in, her oxegyn was good, and got her appetite back. They diagnosed her as asthma exasterbated pnuemonia. 2 days in the hospital, with a lot a sitting, she was happy to leave. She did tell everyone that it was cool because she got to choose what to watch on tv, whenever she wanted, and what to eat whenever she wanted.

She still coughs, but she is 100% better. She even went to school today, and played over at a friends house. Its nice to have our sweet girl back to her sweet self.

Shaun was diagnosed with an ear infection and a sinus infection, and now that the antibiotics have kicked in for him, he's doing 100% better, too. After all that, they just needed some strong meds, and now I need a vacation.







Monday, March 9, 2009

I'm a Mormon. Yes, I am.

http://vimeo.com/2120177



If you've got a minute, watch this. Its a 20 year old girl talking about her Mormon faith at a Harvard religion discussion. I wish I had this kind of poise, and answers. I've got the faith, just not the ... (ability to say what I'm thinking, when I'm thinking it)... She's awe inspiring.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Happy Kids

I'm just going to skip the drama of Nathan being evaluated and found to be developmentally delayed, and how he now gets to go to preschool for 3 1/2 hours for 4 days a week, or that he had an allergic reaction to an antibiotic he's on for the staph infection that Shaun gave him, or that he got tubes put in his ears, or that he is still "loving" the baby, and I'm just going to post some great pictures of my happy kids.




Cute Baby!


Rachel turned 5!



Nathan got tubes!


Baby smiles!


2nd Place in the Pinewood Derby!
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